Youngest Man to Die of Breast Cancer

(News Today) - The youngest man in Britain to be diagnosed with breast cancer has died aged 28. Nicky Avery passed away in hospital on Monday after battling the disease over the past four years. Before his diagnosis Mr Avery had no idea men could contract breast cancer, but he went on to campaign to raise awareness of the disease.

After initially beating the cancer in his breast, it later returned in his liver and bones and may have ultimately spread to his brain. The former labourer from Southend-on-Sea underwent chemotherapy earlier this year, but was admitted to hospital after deteriorating and died surrounded by his family.

In April he had achieved his dream of marrying the love of his life Cheryl Perkins, 28. Mr Avery was diagnosed with cancer in 2006 after a girlfriend convinced him to go to the doctors over a lump in his chest that he had ignored.

A biopsy and scan revealed it to be cancerous. At the time he said: 'I was quite ignorant of the fact a man could get breast cancer.

'Doctors at the hospital said, "Mr Avery, you have got cancer". It was as quick as that. I thought at first they had misdiagnosed me.

'It seemed totally surreal and still does.'

Like many women sufferers, Mr Avery had a radical mastectomy followed by intensive chemotherapy and radiotherapy. At the time he said: ' During my trips to hospital for treatment, I met women who were also being treated for breast cancer and they were really lovely.

'They were a real inspiration to me because they would go in for treatment and then go home and look after their families.'

Following his gruelling treatment he was told he had beaten the disease in May 2007. But in March last year he was told it had spread. Despite vowing to beat the cancer again, it proved too severe.

Dr Anne Robinson, consultant oncologist at Southend Hospital and breast cancer specialist, treated Mr Avery throughout his illness. She said she was amazed when she saw him with the disease at age 24. 'The way he dealt with his illness was inspirational,' she said.

'We don't get many men a year with breast cancer, especially someone his age.

'There are probably four or five men a year here with breast cancer compared with something like 400 women.

In a tribute to Mr Avery, his brother Joe wrote on the website Facebook: 'I'm missing u more than anything ... sweet dreams big bro n il b seein u sumday n were be side by side again love u nicky, ur my hero.'

His widow added: 'He's my hero too and will miss him every min of every day.' Mr Avery's close friend Chris Osborne travelled back to the UK from south-east Asia when he heard he was in hospital, and arrived in time to see him the day before he died.

Mr Osborne later paid tribute online in his blog, writing: 'Nick was a hero to many, as he was always upbeat about battling cancer and still made it his priority to make people laugh and feel good about themselves.

'He was the least selfish person I knew and also the strongest by far.

'His big smile and deep laughter will be remembered by hundreds that were lucky to know him.'

Source : kompas

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